Every pain bring a lesson and purpose in our lives. Instead of focusing on what the pain is meant to teach us we focus on the pain and think the worst instead of the best thoughts. We dont understand that the most growth comes when you are in pain.
The problem starts when we think its the end of life when we lose stuff. We think we can never live without those stuff, not knowing that sometimes you need to lose what you have to gain what is even better for you. I know a story of a guy who lost everything in order for him to gain a double portion of what he lost. Sometimes the pain of losing something is making a way for the new things that are meant to come our way. Instead of thinking positive thoughts when we go through pain we want to hold on to the pain instead of letting it go to see what is coming. We even know the saying that says WHEN ONE DOOR CLOSES, A BIGGER ONE WILL OPEN. Instead of encouraging ourselves with such words we choose to not find purpose in the pain we go through. If you can look at pain as preparation for your new chapter, you will be open to new possibilities. Some people dance while they are in prison till the walls of prison cant hold them anymore. This is because pain is a set up and stepping stone for your next level of growth and success.
Some people become excited when the season of pain comes their way because they know that the season of victory is knocking at their door hence they go through the season of pain with a smile. Instead of being sad and feel pity for yourself, be joyful when you are in season of pain because you know without a doubt that double of what you lost is locating you. You know that what you have been waiting and praying for is finally at your doorstep and its waiting for you beyond your season of pain.