We like to have a tendency of playing victim especially about what happens to us. We fail to understand that some of the things that happen to us are meant to push us into action. But instead of taking action we allow those things to happen to us and do nothing.
You will hear a person complaining about something he can do something about but because he has a victim mentality he wants people to feel sorry for him. When you ask why are you not doing something to change your situation you will hear a thousand excuses why he is not taking action. We allow situations and people to mistreat and torment us and still we choose to endure instead of growing out of the situation. Some things you must outgrow and move to a big circle, move to a bigger and better opportunity. That’s what some situations push us to do. You know deep doing you are not happy with what is happening and you know that you are not growing but you continue to allow it and do nothing. You know deep down that you have the power to change instead of complaining about it but you still choose to do nothing. The world will treat you the way you treat yourself. If you value yourself you will find what brings out higher value in you where you will feel useful and more appreciated.
Dont sit where the seat is hot and allow yourself to burn day in and day out when you can choose to stand up and move. You have the power to change what is happening to you. Its not about what happens to you but its about what you do. Action defines who you are. Even if you dont take action, that also defines who you are.