The things you are looking for are waiting for your growth for them to locate you. The reason why they are delaying is because you are not allowing yourself to grow enough. Opportunities come and you reject them or do nothing when such opportunities come your way. That leads to delay in your growth as a result what you are looking for delays too.
The problem with us is that we focus more on one thing, like money. We complain that we are working hard but results are not showing. Instead of allowing the process of growth to take place we choose to quit. Not knowing that our hard work was part of our growth process. We quit right when the breakthrough was about to unlock. Or we complain that we are not appreciated enough, and we are not focusing on what we are supposed to pour in order for us to be appreciated. We focus on receiving the appreciation and not think that maybe we are appreciated according to the level of our giving. Growth is a process, it might take time but if we stay the course the rewards will show. Suddenly, everything we have been looking for finds us because us have grown. And the reason why we have to grow before we get what we deserve is that when we get what we deserve prematurely it becomes dangerous to us. I know a story of a guy who demanded his inheritance from his father prematurely. When he was given his share of the inheritance he blew it to a point where he ended up with nothing. It is very important for us to get those things we deserve when we are ready for them otherwise we lose them because we mismanage them.
So dont focus on what you need like money, the universe knows exactly what you need. And what you are looking for is also looking for you. Its just waiting for you to grow and they will come like a flood. Choose to push yourself to grow and by learning, by trying everything in your power to make things work. The energy and power you put in to make things work they are helping you to grow mentally and acquire the wisdom because as you work those things you are already thinking about your bright tomorrow today and you are pushing to get to your tomorrow. Your growth will then lead you to those things. Stop delaying yourself by not trying. Stop delaying yourself by quitting the process of your growth. You are being shaped to be the person that is deserving of all the things you know you deserve.